Unencrypting the Connection: Meeting New People in a Tech-Based World

As global connectivity continues to grow, an increasing number of people have been left feeling isolated. Making new connections can feel overwhelming, but there are a few simple ideas that can help.

One of the most reliable ways to meet new people is by joining regular group activities. A planned and structured activity can provide ready-made conversation topics and can remove the pressure of a one-on-one interaction. A BBC journalist in London found she was able to make new connections when trying team sports, bouldering, a creative writing group, and a life drawing class. Find something that genuinely interests you and try chatting with the people around you.

It may also be helpful to cultivate the habit of talking to people for no reason at all. Starting random conversations at the grocery store or on the bus can make it less intimidating when you approach someone you want to connect with. These interactions will be scary at first, but the fear will begin to fade when you realize that an awkward interaction is not the end of the world. A recent study showed that talking to strangers boosted feelings of connectedness and people learned more from these conversations than they expected to.

Although there have been some negative impacts for society, the tech revolution offers some new opportunities for genuine connection. Reddit, the hugely popular discussion board website, is a great way of discovering communities of likeminded people.  Getting started on Reddit is easy, with most users choosing to remain completely anonymous. Facebook groups can also be great places to meet individuals who share your interests and sense of humor. Try participating in conversations, responding to posts, and joining virtual events. Casual, online interactions can grow into true friendships over time.

Making friends in a tech-based world is all about finding shared interests and taking the initiative. Don’t be afraid to take the first step and remember you not alone in being alone!